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High Holy Days Guide
Tishrei 5772

Welcome to the High Holy Days at B'nai Shalom
    
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Overview of Sermons

Description of Services and Observances
    Traditional Service
    Contemporary Service
    Family Service
    Youth Services and Programs

Additional Services and Observances

    Selichot
    Tashlich
    Kever Avot
    Kol Nidre
    Yom Kippur Discussions
    Yizkor
    Sukkot
    Simchat Torah

  

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High Holy Day Information

Description of Services and Observances

We are pleased to offer a variety of services throughout the High Holy Days to meet the needs of all of our congregants. Below is a brief summary of each of the services.

 

Traditional Service

This is our most comprehensive service for those who prefer a traditional format. It takes place in the main sanctuary and always draws a large crowd. Rabbi Emeritus, Gordon Freeman, and Hazzan Dinkin will lead traditional services on Erev Rosh Hashanah, first and second days of Rosh Hashanah, Kol Nidrei, and Yom Kippur. Attendees at the Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services will be treated to the inspiring voices of the Congregation B’nai Shalom Adult Choir. Following the Traditional Service on Erev Rosh Hashanah we will gather together for an oneg in the main courtyard. On the first day of Rosh Hashanah, we will again gather in the main courtyard immediately following the service for apples and honey.

 

Contemporary Service

For those who prefer a briefer, more interactive service, we offer the Contemporary Service. This alternative service is engaging and inspirational. It will be held on the first day of Rosh Hashanah and on Yom Kippur in the Unitarian Sanctuary. Rabbi Jennifer Flam, Director of Congregational Learning, will lead the service.

The start, stop and break times of the Contemporary Service are planned to allow parents ample time to drop off and pick up their children from childcare or youth services. Following the Contemporary Service on the first day of Rosh Hashanah, we will gather outside the Unitarian Sanctuary for apples and honey.

 

Family Service

Families with young children often appreciate attending a brief service with content geared towards the children. On the first day of Rosh Hashanah and on Yom Kippur, we offer a 45-minute Family Service, which is similar to a Tot Shabbat. Following the Family Service many families take their children to childcare or youth programming, depending on the child’s age, and then attend either the Traditional or Contemporary Service themselves. This year the Family Service will be led by Rabbi Jennifer Flam in the Congregation B’nai Shalom Social Hall.

We invite your friends and family members with young children in the community who are not affiliated with our synagogue to attend our Family Service on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. For security reasons we ask those planning to attend the Family Service to call the office at 925-934-9446 in advance to reserve tickets. Please encourage your friends to call as soon as possible. We look forward to celebrating Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur with the youngest members of our community and their families.

 

Youth Services and Programs (for ALL youth between K - 5th Grade)

Children and youth are a very important part of our B’nai Shalom family. The High Holy Days Youth Services and Programs are an integral part of the Congregation B’nai Shalom youth curriculum and offer age appropriate holiday learning experiences. The High Holy Day Youth Program and Service is encouraged for all children between Kindergarten and 5th Grade. Students from our kindergarten through the 4th grade are required to participate on the first day of Rosh Hashanah and on Yom Kippur morning in the Youth Program and Family Service. Students entering the 5th grade may choose whether they want to participate in the Youth Program or participate in the adult service. Students in 6th or 7th grade (and older) in the fall are encouraged to attend the adult services. In order to ensure that we provide meaningful and joyous High Holy Days services and programming for our youth we ask that you complete the Youth Program Reservation Form and return it to the office along with any other relevant forms. Parents and guardians are responsible for the supervision of their children unless the child is checked into and attending a youth program or is in childcare.

 

Additional Services and Observances

 

Selichot
This service of penitential prayers takes place late on the Saturday night preceding Rosh Hashanah (September 24, 2011 at 11:00 PM). One of the highlights of the service is a recitation of the "Thirteen Attributes of God," a descriptive passage from Exodus that expresses God's merciful nature:

"The Lord! The Lord! A God compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, rich in steadfast kindness, extending kindness to the thousandth generation, forgiving iniquity, transgression, and sin; yet He does not remit all punishment..." Exodus 34:6-7


In addition, the Torah scrolls are traditionally dressed in white mantles, marking the transition from the “old year” to the period of the High Holy Days.

 

Tashlich


"And you will cast all your sins into the depths of the sea."  Micah 7:19


Tashlich (“cast away”) helps us prepare for Yom Kippur as we repent for the sins that we may have committed over the past year. Together as a congregation, we recite verses of prayer then symbolically cast away our sins into a body of water. Hazzan Dinkin and Rabbi Raphael Asher of Congregation B'nai Tikvah will lead the service on the first day of Rosh Hashanah at 5:00 PM at Civic Park in Walnut Creek. We will provide the appropriate materials to cast into the water.

 

Kever Avot

Kever Avot (“grave of the ancestors”) is the custom of visiting the graveside of parents or close relatives and praying there. The theme of the prayers is peaceful eternal rest for the departed and an invocation for God's aid to the living on the basis of the pious deeds of the dead performed in their lifetime. Hazzan Dinkin will lead the service at Oakmont Memorial Park Cemetery on Sunday, October 2nd at 11:00 AM.

 

Kol Nidre

Kol Nidrei (“all vows”) is a dramatic evening service that ushers in Yom Kippur. All the Torah scrolls are removed from the Ark, and the Hazzan chants the moving and memorable prayers. Kol Nidrei is actually a legal formula that declares all religious vows in the coming year as null and void. Rabbi Emeritus Gordon Freeman and Hazzan Dinkin will lead this service. They will be accompanied by our adult choir.

 

Yom Kippur Discussions - Reaching Towards Holiness: The Gates of Awe

Traditionally the Days of Awe are characterized by intense introspection. We use our age-old tradition to look within ourselves and our community to take an accounting of the year that has gone by as we prepare for the possibilities of the year to come. As the sun moves lower in the sky this Yom Kippur afternoon, join me as we begin exploring together some of the ways our tradition teaches us to remain our authentic selves throughout the year.

We will continue this discussion quarterly throughout the year on Shabbat afternoons following the kiddush lunch.

 

Yizkor
It is customary to remember our deceased loved ones by pledging tzedakah [charity] funds so that the good deeds of the survivors elevate the souls of the departed. During the Yizkor service, we will recite prayers in remembrance of departed relatives. As a congregation, we all recite Yizkor for those who have given their lives defending Judaism throughout the ages.

We will place a Yahrzeit Book in the Aron HaKodesh during the Yizkor service. If the name of your loved one is in the Synagogue’s master Yahrzeit record or in the memorial section of our Directory, it will automatically be included in the Yahrzeit Book. If you are not sure if you have given the names of your departed loved ones to the office, or if you have new names to add, please complete the Yahrzeit Book for Yizkor Service form and send it to the office by Tuesday, September 13th.

 

Sukkot
Sukkot is the week-long Festival of Booths, which this year begins on the evening of Wednesday, October 12th. We encourage you to welcome this beautiful holiday by building your own Sukkah and by celebrating with your own Lulav and Etrog. If you wish to purchase your Lulav and Etrog via Congregation B’nai Shalom, please send your check for $35 payable to Congregation B’nai Shalom and mail/deliver it to the office at 74 Eckley Lane, Walnut Creek, CA 94596. The office will need to receive your check by Monday, September 19th. You may pick up your Lulav and Etrog from the office on Tuesday October 11th after 1:00 PM, or all day Wednesday, October 12th. Office hours are 9:00 AM to 4:30 PM both days.

If you would like to help assemble the Congregation B’nai Shalom sukkah, please contact Michael Tejeda at 925-932-3078 or by email at MichaelTejeda@aol.com.

 

Simchat Torah

Sukkot culminates in the festive celebration of concluding the reading of the Torah. At Simchat Torah services, we dance with the Torah scrolls, giving everybody a chance to hold the Torah and to be called for an aliyah. In addition, we unroll the Torah from beginning to end around the sanctuary for all to see. Simchat Torah services will take place on Thursday, October 20th, at 7:00 PM, and Friday, October 21st, at 9:30 AM. This is an experience you won’t want to miss!

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